For your entertainment…

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A letter from my sister Stacy. When I replied, I pointed out that she should have mentioned a key piece of information up front… the fact that she’s now a blonde. Because I was busy picturing her in various activities (writing a novel, driving on the wrong side of the road, tipping cows) with entirely the wrong hair color. I had to read the message all over again. I also inquired about whether the Combines are John Deere’s are not. Because I was picturing them green. If not, then I need to revise again.

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Friends

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Yikes, I haven’t been keeping up with what my friends are doing lately. I’m so sorry I haven’t called, e-mailed or otherwise communicated with you. I have no excuse, really except that I have been wicked busy lately.
Stephanie and I have been doing a lot around her house and around mine to get stuff organized. I’ve been doing lots of little things that are intended to make my house more comfy. I’m hoping to get to redoing the patio in back of the house sometime in September, which will be a major thing.
Among other things, though, I got my other website, the mineart.org site, switched over to a new web host, which was a major ordeal since my main e-mail is located at that address, and it meant my e-mail was down for a few days. But now I can do all kind of cool stuff, like set up subdomains for my brothers to have their very own sites, etc. It will be pretty cool. Plus it’s a whole lot more space, and a lot cheaper. I’m very excited.

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Vacation

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I took Thursday, Friday and Monday off as vacation days. I was at home the whole time, but I didn’t blog anything because I spent most of the time working on stuff around the house. Mostly a bunch of small projects designed to make things more convenient. The shelf in the dining room closet was barely hanging on the wall, and the pole under it to hang hangers and coats on was attached to the shelf by wire coat hangers. Stupid slumlord that used to own my house. Sadly it has been that way for the two and a half years that I owned the house. So I fixed that and the bar in the office closet as well. Just a bunch of small stuff like that.
Also I rehung my flag pole outside my second story window, and bought a new rainbow flag. So there, flag stealers.
I know there’s been a bunch of stuff in the news that I would normally comment on, but I haven’t had time.

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Somebody stole my rainbow Flag

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From in front of my house, for the second time. I’m pretty pissed about it. However, my name is etched onto the pole, and the flag is super-glued to the pole, so whoever has it, if they stole it to put outside their house, won’t be able to display it without me finding it.
I suspect since it has happened twice now, though, that the thief is someone homophobic who doesn’t want the flag displayed. I’m trying to figure out the best way to put a massive flag on my house without anyone being able to do anything. I’m thinking curtains in the front window upstairs, actually. Hmmm.

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Eighties Party Music

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The party is on Saturday, October 2nd at 8 p.m.
I’ve ripped all the albums I need (I think) and I have eliminated duplicate songs from the compilation discs that Doug gave me. Currently I have 1482 songs in my playlist, which is 4.1 Days worth of music.
I have to narrow that down a bit. 🙂
But you can imagine, this is going to be a pretty kicking party.

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Weekend Update 2004-07-19

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This weekend, I did a ton of work on my Dad’s website, and because of that we had to skip the Fever game on Friday. Saturday I worked on the site more.
Saturday night, Stephanie and I went to Dan and Doug’s 70’s party, which was really fun. We dressed as random hippies, because the theme was “come as your favorite 70’s TV icon.” Dan was a M.A.S.H. character, Doug was from Starsky and Hutch, Troy came as Kojak. Jon was the streaker from the 1976 Superbowl (he wasn’t nude; he had jogging shorts and a 1977 pro-streaking shirt), Kris was Ellie-May Clampett. There were lots of others, those are what I remember off the top of my head.
Sunday I went to Bloomington with Stephanie and watched the Bloomington Feminist Singers sing for the Unitarian Universalist Church service, which was really beautiful. They sing wonderfully. I was also overwhelmed by the service; having really only experienced Catholic and Episcopal services, this was very different for me and much more interesting than any service I’d been to before.
We also caught up on Big Brother and The Amazing Race on Sunday afternoon, and I spent some time reading In Cold Blood by Truman Capote, for my book club on Wednesday. I finished it up last night. Bad idea, as it gave me the willies, and I walked around double-checking that my doors were locked.

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Women Who Dared

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I haven’t found the author of the below e-mail that was forwarded to me, but I thought it was great.

The women were innocent and defenseless. And by the end of the night, they were barely alive.
Forty-prison guards wielding clubs and their warden’s blessing went on a rampage against the 33 helpless women wrongly convicted of “obstructing sidewalk traffic.” They beat Lucy Burn, chained her hands to the cell bars above her head and left her hanging for the night, bleeding and gasping for air.
They hurled Dora Lewis into a dark cell, smashed her head against an iron bed and knocked her out cold. Her cellmate, Alice Cosu, thought Lewis was dead and suffered a heart attack.
Additional affidavits describe the guards grabbing, dragging, beating, choking, slamming, pinching, twisting and kicking the women. Thus unfolded the “Night of Terror” on Nov. 15, 1917, when the warden at the Occoquan Workhouse in Virginia ordered his guards to teach a lesson to the suffragists imprisoned there because they dared to picket Woodrow Wilson’s White House for the right to vote.
For weeks, the women’s only water came from an open pail. Their food–all of it colorless slops–was infested with worms.
When one of the leaders, Alice Paul, embarked on a hunger strike, they tied her to a chair, forced a tube down her throat and poured liquid into her until she vomited. She was tortured like this for weeks until word was smuggled out to the press.
So, refresh my memory. Some women won’t vote this year because–why, exactly? We have carpool duties? We have to get to work? Our vote doesn’t matter? It’s raining? Last week, I went to a sparsely attended screening of HBO’s new movie “Iron Jawed Angels.” It is a graphic depiction of the battle these women waged so that I could pull the curtain at the polling booth and have my say. I am ashamed to say I needed the reminder.
There was a time when I knew these women well. I met them in college–not in my required American history courses, which barely mentioned them, but in women’s history class. That’s where I found the irrepressibly brave Alice Paul Her large, brooding eyes seemed fixed on my own as she stared out from the page. “Remember!” she silently beckoned.
Remember. I thought I always would. I registered voters throughout college and law school, worked on congressional and presidential campaigns until I started writing for newspapers. When Geraldine Ferraro ran for vice president, I took my 9-year-old son to meet her. “My knees are shaking,” he whispered after shaking her hand “I’m never going to wash this hand again.”
All these years later, voter registration is still my passion. But the actual act of voting had become less personal for me, more rote. Frankly, voting often felt more like an obligation than a privilege. Sometimes, it was even inconvenient. My friend Wendy, who is my age and studied women’s history, saw the HBO movie, too. When she stopped by my desk to talk about it, she looked angry. She was. With herself. “One thought kept coming back to me as I watched that movie,” she said. “What would those women think of the way I use–or don’t use–my right to vote?
All of us take it for granted now, not just younger women, but those of us who did seek to learn.” The right to vote, she said, had become valuable to her “all over again.”
HBO will run the movie periodically before releasing it on video and DVD. I wish all history, social studies and government teachers would include the movie in their curriculum. I want it shown on Bunko night, too, and anywhere else women gather. I realize this isn’t our usual idea of socializing, but we are not voting in the numbers that we should be, and I think a little shock therapy is in order.
It is jarring to watch Woodrow Wilson and his cronies try to persuade a psychiatrist to declare Alice Paul insane so that she could be permanently institutionalized. And it is inspiring to watch the doctor refuse. Alice Paul was strong, he said, and brave. That didn’t make her crazy.
The doctor admonished the men: “Courage in women is often mistaken for insanity.”

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Celebrity Look Alike

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If I could look like any celebrity, I would love to look like Sophie B. Hawkins. She’s incredibly gorgeous, and I love the way she dresses… very down to earth and a lot like I do.

Sophie B. Hawkins

Even when she’s dressed up, she has amazing style.

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And then there are the times when she dresses up like a mechanic, or you know, a milkmaid. Everyone dresses like a milkmaid once in a while, don’t they?

Sophie B. Hawkins

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Cate used to have the milkmaid picture on her refrigerator. Which is a very good idea, I think, because that’s what I want to see when I’m getting a bowl of cereal.

Sophie B. Hawkins

Sophie B. Hawkins

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Sophie B. Hawkins

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I feel great

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I went to the gym this morning. It was really cool. I’ve been wary of going in the morning, because I hate showering with people I don’t know, but it turns out the showers are very private in this gym, unlike my old one, so I felt just fine. Nobody saw me naked or anything.
I ran on the treadmill for half an hour. I need to adjust some stuff on my timing, but I still made it to work at a reasonable hour. I also need the one size larger gym bag, and I want to look at refillable travel size shower gel bottles, but in all it was great.
I figure if I go to bed at 10, I can get up at 6:00, leave the house at 6:30, arrive at the gym at 7:00, spend an hour there working out and showering, and then be at work by 8:00.

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