Weekend Update 2004-07-19

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This weekend, I did a ton of work on my Dad’s website, and because of that we had to skip the Fever game on Friday. Saturday I worked on the site more.
Saturday night, Stephanie and I went to Dan and Doug’s 70’s party, which was really fun. We dressed as random hippies, because the theme was “come as your favorite 70’s TV icon.” Dan was a M.A.S.H. character, Doug was from Starsky and Hutch, Troy came as Kojak. Jon was the streaker from the 1976 Superbowl (he wasn’t nude; he had jogging shorts and a 1977 pro-streaking shirt), Kris was Ellie-May Clampett. There were lots of others, those are what I remember off the top of my head.
Sunday I went to Bloomington with Stephanie and watched the Bloomington Feminist Singers sing for the Unitarian Universalist Church service, which was really beautiful. They sing wonderfully. I was also overwhelmed by the service; having really only experienced Catholic and Episcopal services, this was very different for me and much more interesting than any service I’d been to before.
We also caught up on Big Brother and The Amazing Race on Sunday afternoon, and I spent some time reading In Cold Blood by Truman Capote, for my book club on Wednesday. I finished it up last night. Bad idea, as it gave me the willies, and I walked around double-checking that my doors were locked.

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Democracy? Not in these United States

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Congresswoman Corrine Brown (D-FL) represents 600,000 Americans in the Duval County/Jacksonville area.
During the 2000 election, 27,000 ballots went ptooey from faulty machines, just in Rep. Brown’s district alone. And you can guess the relative skin shades of the folks whose votes a) were not for the governor’s brother, and b) didn’t count.
Thursday, the Congresswoman was censured by the GOP-controlled House of Representatives. Why? For speaking the obvious out loud, without fear or hesitation, that’s why:
“I come from Florida, where you [the GOP leadership] and others participated in what I call the United States coup d’etat. We need to make sure that it doesn’t happen again. Over and over again after the election when you stole the election, you came back here and said get over it. No we’re not going to get over it and we want verification from the world.” — said to Rep. Steve Buyer, R-Indiana, after Buyer proposed a measure barring any federal official from requesting that the United Nations formally observe the U.S. elections on Nov. 2.
The Reason Why: about a dozen members of Congress, including several leaders of the Congressional Black Caucus, recently called for UN observers to verify American elections, given the hanky-panky we all know is coming.
The GOP, displaying their usual integrity, promptly produced a bill forbidding any such thing, shouted the Congresswoman down when she wouldn’t just “Go Fuck Herself”, censured her, and then had her comments stricken from the Congressional Record.

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Women Who Dared

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I haven’t found the author of the below e-mail that was forwarded to me, but I thought it was great.

The women were innocent and defenseless. And by the end of the night, they were barely alive.
Forty-prison guards wielding clubs and their warden’s blessing went on a rampage against the 33 helpless women wrongly convicted of “obstructing sidewalk traffic.” They beat Lucy Burn, chained her hands to the cell bars above her head and left her hanging for the night, bleeding and gasping for air.
They hurled Dora Lewis into a dark cell, smashed her head against an iron bed and knocked her out cold. Her cellmate, Alice Cosu, thought Lewis was dead and suffered a heart attack.
Additional affidavits describe the guards grabbing, dragging, beating, choking, slamming, pinching, twisting and kicking the women. Thus unfolded the “Night of Terror” on Nov. 15, 1917, when the warden at the Occoquan Workhouse in Virginia ordered his guards to teach a lesson to the suffragists imprisoned there because they dared to picket Woodrow Wilson’s White House for the right to vote.
For weeks, the women’s only water came from an open pail. Their food–all of it colorless slops–was infested with worms.
When one of the leaders, Alice Paul, embarked on a hunger strike, they tied her to a chair, forced a tube down her throat and poured liquid into her until she vomited. She was tortured like this for weeks until word was smuggled out to the press.
So, refresh my memory. Some women won’t vote this year because–why, exactly? We have carpool duties? We have to get to work? Our vote doesn’t matter? It’s raining? Last week, I went to a sparsely attended screening of HBO’s new movie “Iron Jawed Angels.” It is a graphic depiction of the battle these women waged so that I could pull the curtain at the polling booth and have my say. I am ashamed to say I needed the reminder.
There was a time when I knew these women well. I met them in college–not in my required American history courses, which barely mentioned them, but in women’s history class. That’s where I found the irrepressibly brave Alice Paul Her large, brooding eyes seemed fixed on my own as she stared out from the page. “Remember!” she silently beckoned.
Remember. I thought I always would. I registered voters throughout college and law school, worked on congressional and presidential campaigns until I started writing for newspapers. When Geraldine Ferraro ran for vice president, I took my 9-year-old son to meet her. “My knees are shaking,” he whispered after shaking her hand “I’m never going to wash this hand again.”
All these years later, voter registration is still my passion. But the actual act of voting had become less personal for me, more rote. Frankly, voting often felt more like an obligation than a privilege. Sometimes, it was even inconvenient. My friend Wendy, who is my age and studied women’s history, saw the HBO movie, too. When she stopped by my desk to talk about it, she looked angry. She was. With herself. “One thought kept coming back to me as I watched that movie,” she said. “What would those women think of the way I use–or don’t use–my right to vote?
All of us take it for granted now, not just younger women, but those of us who did seek to learn.” The right to vote, she said, had become valuable to her “all over again.”
HBO will run the movie periodically before releasing it on video and DVD. I wish all history, social studies and government teachers would include the movie in their curriculum. I want it shown on Bunko night, too, and anywhere else women gather. I realize this isn’t our usual idea of socializing, but we are not voting in the numbers that we should be, and I think a little shock therapy is in order.
It is jarring to watch Woodrow Wilson and his cronies try to persuade a psychiatrist to declare Alice Paul insane so that she could be permanently institutionalized. And it is inspiring to watch the doctor refuse. Alice Paul was strong, he said, and brave. That didn’t make her crazy.
The doctor admonished the men: “Courage in women is often mistaken for insanity.”

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Responsible Shopper

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I had no idea this Responsible Shopper site existed! For a long time, I’ve been thinking something like it would be good. I can never remember what companies I’m supposed to be boycotting at any given time… is it still wrong for me to go to Cracker Barrel, for example? Because it’s owned by Altria Group Inc. (formerly Philip Morris) Brands, probably not.
To get more specific information, I can do a search on “discrimination” and get a list of companies and how they rate on gay and lesbian as well as other descrimination issues.

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FOUR FOR FRIDAY. Er. Wednesday.

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Courtesy of belicove.com.
Q1: Have you ever marched in a parade? If so, what was the cause/reason/banner/float you marched under?
The 1987 March on Washington for Gay and Lesbian Civil Rights, The 1993 March on Washington for Gay and Lesbian Civil Rights, The 25th Anniversary of the Stonewall Rebellion in 1994, The 2000 March on Washington for Gay and Lesbian Civil Rights. All in the Indiana contingents of the parade.
Q2: Have you ever had to wear a uniform for a job? If so, what was the job, and how did you feel about the uniform?
McDonalds. Castleton Movie Theatre. Both sucked, mainly because they were polyester.
Q3: What’s your favorite way to enjoy music… Live, at a concert; In the comfort of your own home, on MTV; While driving, listening to your car’s radio; While exercising, on an MP3 player or CD player/Walkman; or, At home, on your own stereo?
On my iPod, anywhere. I can plug it into my car stereo, my home stereo, the small stereo radio in my bedroom, my computer at work.
Q4: If you were to trade your current license plate in for a vanity plate, what letters or word(s) would you choose for your new plate?
Eh. I’m not into vanity plates. My uncle, who’s last name is Turnipseed, had a vanity plate that said “MR T” for years. That’s pretty cool. I think plates where you have to abbreviate the word in some way to fit it on the plate are pretty lame, though, like 2BLND4U. If you can’t pick a single word with 7 letters, don’t bother. Dork.

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Senate Blocks Bush Move to Ban Same-Sex Marriage. For Now.

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Yep, the senate voted not to pass the amendment denying marriage rights to gay people today. However, they basically knew it would fail this year. The key was to get people on record voting against the amendment, so they can use it as a tool to bash Senators in the upcoming election. Then if they win, they plan to introduce it again. And all signs point to the fact that it could pass if Bush is re-elected.

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Celebrity Look Alike

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If I could look like any celebrity, I would love to look like Sophie B. Hawkins. She’s incredibly gorgeous, and I love the way she dresses… very down to earth and a lot like I do.

Sophie B. Hawkins

Even when she’s dressed up, she has amazing style.

Sophie B. Hawkins

And then there are the times when she dresses up like a mechanic, or you know, a milkmaid. Everyone dresses like a milkmaid once in a while, don’t they?

Sophie B. Hawkins

Sophie B. Hawkins

Cate used to have the milkmaid picture on her refrigerator. Which is a very good idea, I think, because that’s what I want to see when I’m getting a bowl of cereal.

Sophie B. Hawkins

Sophie B. Hawkins

Sophie B. Hawkins

Sophie B. Hawkins

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I feel great

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I went to the gym this morning. It was really cool. I’ve been wary of going in the morning, because I hate showering with people I don’t know, but it turns out the showers are very private in this gym, unlike my old one, so I felt just fine. Nobody saw me naked or anything.
I ran on the treadmill for half an hour. I need to adjust some stuff on my timing, but I still made it to work at a reasonable hour. I also need the one size larger gym bag, and I want to look at refillable travel size shower gel bottles, but in all it was great.
I figure if I go to bed at 10, I can get up at 6:00, leave the house at 6:30, arrive at the gym at 7:00, spend an hour there working out and showering, and then be at work by 8:00.

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Stuff I need to read, but keep getting diverted from:

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Things that have been sitting on my bookshelf forever that I’m dying to get to, but I keep getting diverted by one or the other book clubs I’m in. I think I may have to let one of them go, much as I hate the idea. I might have to be the women’s book club, since they seem to be switching the time to the evenings. When I joined, one of the attractions was that they met on Sunday afternoons.
My Life, by Bill Clinton
Ella Minnow Pea
Jane and the Ghosts of Netley
The Devil in the White City
An Instance of the Fingerpost
Everything is Illuminated
A Short History of Nearly Everything
Pattern Recognition
Infinite Jest
The Girl with Curious Hair
Master and Commander

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